friends

my brilliant friend Carrie wrote this (in response to the bullshit below) to me the other day.

"People are way fuckin complicated...and most people really don't know
or understand themselves enough to communicate clearly to another human being. perhaps because she is scared or worried about drinking or whatever she has been acting out to create drama as a distraction or as a way of getting some need met...who knows...sometimes as we know people better we see what they do or understand their patterns better, but the subtext is always more of what is really going on and you just need tools to get to that place faster and not be in drama which usually has nothing to do w/nothing...as long as 2-people can be conscious of that effort and do their best towards it it is usually pretty groovy and never perfect which is groovy in its own right."

carrie is the cutest. and smart, too. like all my family.